你會貪新忘舊嗎?
你會貪新忘舊嗎?
現在的社會尤其是那十幾嵗的青少年就是這種樣本。。有了新的,不管是人物或物質,都會把舊的完完全全的忘掉。當一個人到市場買食物時必定要選最新鮮的,味道跟口感也是最佳的。然而,在處理感情關係時,有人亦會抱着愈新鮮愈好的心態。於是今日新相識的會比上星期相識的新鮮,最嚴重是未相識的永遠比現有的新鮮。這安心於份的心態,最終只會傷人兼害己。你會是那一種人,就試試看以下的心理測驗吧。。。
問題:
某天你到埃及遊玩,突然你發現到沙漠中有件閃閃發光的東西,你猜那會是甚麽?
A. 玻璃樽 B. 珠寶首飾 C. 塑膠玩具 D. 鐵罐
答案:
A 種: 你對於外遇這囘事,倒是看得很平常,不認爲它是罪悪的。你認爲出軌的對象只是一個很好的性伴侶罷了,另一半是沒有辦法阻止的,更不應視之為慾望的使然。
B 種:現在你對另一半最大的不滿,可能是認知上的差距。如果偶然讓你認識了一個和自己思想相近的夥伴,你内心可能會有一陣交戰。不過沒關係,你的本性中沒有帶着外遇因子,就算真的發生了,也絕對不會是主動去招惹來的。
C 種:你也許是在性事上有着極大的不滿,你一定很嚮往 [失樂園] 那樣的激情吧!事實上,在你的潛在慾望中,你好像還真的在期待一段刺激的出軌之旅呢,你自己察覺到了嗎?
D 種:基本上,你是一個絕對沒有外遇念頭的人,但是當另一半已經不再吸引你時,那就另當別論了。你是否感到大家之間已沒有共同話題?你對你的情人的熱情可能已經降到最低溫了,如果這時候讓你喜歡上另一個人,你也許不會是出軌玩玩,轉換一下心情, 而是真的跳下去談戀愛!
ARE YOU A PERSON WHO WILL JUMP INTO SOMETHING THAT IS NEWER?
In the present society, majority of the teenagers are like this…when they have found something that is newer, whether it is a human being or an item, they will totally forget about the older ones. When one goes shopping for sundries, surely he will choose something that is freshest and suit his taste bud. However, when it comes to romance and relationship, he tends to apply this in his approach for the better. Could he be thinking that who he met now could even be better than whom he met the previous week? The worst part of a relationship is that whom he has not met could be even better than who he is with now. In the end, not only will he hurt himself but also the person’s feelings towards him. Which type of person are you? Why not take the simple test below and find out more about yourself?
QUESTION:
When you are having a vacation in Egypt, you saw something shining far away. What do you think it is?
A. glassware B. jewel C. rubber toy D. tin can
ANSWER:
TYPE A: You are a person who will consider meeting up with another person is somewhat normal. You will take the person as a good buddy. Whether the person is your soul mate or not, you will not force the relationship and will let it comes naturally.
TYPE B: Due to some differences, you are not feeling rather pleased with your other half now. If you met up with someone else who has the same level of thinking, you might have some feelings of guilt now. Do not worry as you have no intention of changing to something better right now. Even though if it has happened, it is not something that you did on purpose with an intention.
TYPE C: You are really unhappy with your love life and wished that you are in the “Garden of Unhapiness” right now. In fact inside you, you are looking forward to an exciting and romantic relationship. Are you not having that feeling right now?
TYPE D: You are a person who has not even a thought of having a relationship. Even if you are having one now, you will feel that your other half has lost his or her glitters and attractiveness. To you, this is the end of the road as there is no longer a common topic in your daily conversation.. If you met someone you like right now, you will be serious to jump into this relationship immediately.